I've been reading the post here and I seem to be the only one that is 4 1/2 year after the loss and is still upset. I just not getting on with this on my own. So what I would like to know form the girls here that use them dos therapy help? Is there anyware allso I can go to get some help?
Last edited by Spirtwalker; 11-08-2007 at 01:42 PM.
Bereaved Parents Association
Bereaved Parents provides a place and opportunity for parents to come together:
To introduce the various stages of grief as normal and natural.
To provide support and comfort in the knowledge that you are not alone.
For information on meetings closest to your area please call.
Charlottetown (10 Liam Drive)
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10 Liam Drive
Telephone: (902) 569-2686
Stillborn And Neonatal Self-help Group
Stillborn and Neonatal Self-Help Group was founded to provide support for others who have experienced the loss of a child because of a stillbirth or neonatal death. The group is very helpful for parents once they reach the point where they can talk about their child's death. The group encourages the parent to talk about their child's death. The group encourages the parent to talk about their feelings and experiences.
Charlottetown (75 Hillsboro Street
There is a West Prince contact: Melanie MacPherson 836-5313) [On a map]
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75 Hillsboro St.
Telephone: (902) 892-0018
I think it is completely normal that you are still grieving. I have talked to people who lost their child 5+ years and they still think of their baby every day. I think now that your daughter is growing up you are really getting a better picture of what you are missing out on not having your little boy with you. Please keep in touch and let me know if any of this information helps. I have been thinking about you a lot.
I also found these website for you. HOpefully you can just copy and paste them onto the address line.
I dont have much information about therapy but I think it is completely normal to still be upset about your baby. My sister lost her first son and he'd be 18 years old now- she still has some very rough days and thinks of him a lot.
I think therapy does help. You can seek out a licensed social worker who deals with grief or a physcologist who can help you to process what you are feeling. I don't think I will ever forget my baby but I am hoping that in 4 years it will not hurt as bad. If you are still really grieving and hurting about your loss then you need to see somebody.
We are here for you but I think a grief counselor is your best option.
Antionette, do not pass peacefully. But at listed this year some off me frineds come over and let me talk about it. My x-BF even show up at midnight so that I would not be alone and stay all night ith me. I don't brack down in front of your daughter. Wich was a good thing.
I'm sorry that you are suffering. Personally I think counselling does help a lot - it really has helped me over the years with a number of personal issues, including loss and grief. It can take a bit of time to find the right counsellor but I think it is worth the effort. I wish you peace and happiness