So I posted a few weeks ago about my af not showing after my d and c. (after 6 weeks) Doc gave me provera which I wasnt thrill about but finally decided to take it (10 days) Sunday was my last day. I dont think I have ever been so excited to have finally started.(after 67 days) last night/today. Ok my problem is I dont know what to consider my first day. We are thinking about trying this cycle. I need to know which day to count as one. I had a little blood last night like one square sized circle on the pad. Today still isnt much. maybe three sqaure sized circles all day. What do I count as day one yesterday or today? Also the reason we are questioning ttc is dd. We worry because we enjoy our time with her so much we are afraid that a new baby will take something away from her, but then again we feel like we dont want them to be too far apart. My dd is almost 22 months now so they would be a little over two and a half years apart. ok I am rambling any thoughts ladies? Ok one more question. How many children do you consider yourself having. I have dd who is living, but I feel like I also have my angel, but people wouldnt understand if I said I have two children without an explanation. Any thoughts on that?