Grieving my dreams (TTC ment)

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Grieving my dreams (TTC ment)

I have posted here before my here is my story and a little update.

I have had 2 m/c, and I have now been TTC for a year.

I was just diagosed with diminished ovarian reserve. FSH 20. My dr basically told me that my chances are very poor of ever having a child.

I am so sad. I feel like all of my dreams are gone.

In spite of everything that has happened to me, I have always had hope. Now it is gone.

I hope that you don't mind if I post here. I think I will find it comforting.

Have any of you had experience with this?

Joined: 11/19/05
Posts: 456

I am so very sorry :bighug: This news is heartbreaking... Sad

Please, before you give up all on this board..There are actually 4, post on all of them...There are about 4 reproductive endocronologist on each one..Someone should get back to you with an answer tonight, or, by tomorrow morning... (it is free!)

I do not have any experience with diminished ovarian mine is okay..That said, I am 43 going on may be a huge issue for me, as well as my other fertility problems..

Hang in there!! We are all here for you!! :bighug:


Joined: 01/25/02
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I'm sorry hon. I don't know much information about your diagnosis, but understand your frustration and devastation. :bigarmhug:

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Joined: 01/13/07
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I am so very sorry that you are going through this. You have suffered a loss just as much as the rest of us have.


Joined: 03/16/15
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I am so sorry for your loss and pain. I really wish I could reach right through my monitor and give you the biggest, warmest hug.

Please check out the link that Marie listed for you.

And keep writing in -- we care about you.


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Joined: 09/08/07
Posts: 72

I'm so sorry, unfortunately I have an idea of how you are feeling. I was there a little more than a month ago. Don't give up all hope as the chances might be low, but miracles do happen and I'm waiting for my own miracle too.

I got the news that I have a very low chance of actually carrying a baby to term and my chances of m/c is >50% or very high chance for a preemie. My doc did refer me to the specialists in this particular area for a 2nd opinion which I will do, but he didn't give me much hope.

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Joined: 01/31/08
Posts: 163

I have had so many losses too and the thought that I may never be able to have my own baby is horrifying to me. BUT what keeps me sane is the thought that no matter what I am going to have a baby, I may not be able to have a child myself, but adoption is something I have always felt strongly about. I know this is such a personal decision, but for me I find comfort in the thought that I will have my baby one day.
I am sorry to hear this news, but like the other ladies have said, please don't give up. I have been trying for almost 8 years. Sometimes I wonder how I keep getting up the courage and can even hope, but somehow I do. Stay positive. It can happen.

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