Guess this is it (mc ment)

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Guess this is it (mc ment)

Well, I guess this is the start of it. I was supposed to go in Mon to confirm my slow rising hcg levels to be a failed pregnancy, but it looks like Its being confirmed now. I started to bleed lightly today. Im not cramping and its not heavy yet, so I guess this probably the start. Well, at least now I know for sure. I can start to heal and go forward. Thank you all for your kind words. Oh and on another good note, my dh is in town until Wed, so hopefully this whole ordeal will be over by then, at least the physical part. The mental part may take some time. THis may be the way I end my child bearing days, how sad is that? NOT the way I wanted it to end! Sad

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Oh, hon I'm just so so sorry you have to endure this. I can absolutely relate. I agree that the physically healing will come much faster than the emotional healing. I hope that your DH will be able to be with you. On a side note, I started lightly bleeding on Sun night and miscarried Tues night.
Take care of yourself and know that I"ll be thinking of you. You have been through enough over the last week.
Hugs to you, Kendall

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Well, I guess this is the start of it. I was supposed to go in Mon to confirm my slow rising hcg levels to be a failed pregnancy, but it looks like Its being confirmed now. I started to bleed lightly today. Im not cramping and its not heavy yet, so I guess this probably the start. Well, at least now I know for sure. I can start to heal and go forward. Thank you all for your kind words. Oh and on another good note, my dh is in town until Wed, so hopefully this whole ordeal will be over by then, at least the physical part. The mental part may take some time. THis may be the way I end my child bearing days, how sad is that? NOT the way I wanted it to end! Sad

I was 15 weeks along with me third child when we lost him. I think the emotional part of ending my child bearing days like this is something else entirely that I have to heal from, in addition to the loss. Just wanted to offer some :bighug: because I completely understand how you feel. Not only are you mourning the loss of your baby, but also the child bearing days. It's tough.

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I am so sorry. I know that the emotional healing will take time. I just hope that the physical healing goes well and quickly.

Shelly

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I'm sorry so for your loss

I hope your DH can be with you! I also hope your phisical healing is over soon!! As I know your emotional healing will take a long time and you will never be "over it"

(((hugs)))

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I feel for your loss and send you many hugs and fuzzies. I am too hoping that DH will be your strength and help you and he will find someone to help him as well.

loveya