Thread: Hate to be joining you

I had a dating u/s today as the doctor thought my dates were off. My dates probably were not off but baby measured 8-9weeks with no heartbeat. I should have been 11 weeks.

The hardest part is hearing my almost 6 year old son tell me how much he wanted a sibling. It is hard on all 3 of us.

Heartbroken and waiting for a m/c or a d&c.

Margaret

Margaret, I'm so gutted for you!!!! Utterly sad! This shouldn't have happened. It's so difficult on the siblings, especially when they are older. I can imagine the pain... I'm here for you, if you need me.

Big hugs...
Jennifer

{{{{HUGS}}}} Margaret, I'm so incredibly sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is any other way that I can offer you support at this time. I think my worse loss experiences were those that I felt so blasted blindsided which it seems as you were.

There are no words that I can offer right now. Just know that I'm thinking of you and will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

~Missy

Margaret,

I am so sorry for your loss. Miscarriages really are hard on the entire family. I miscarried right before Thanksgiving and we had told my son we were expecting and it was so hard to have tell him it wasn't going to happen after all. Huge hugs.

So very sorry for your loss, Margaret.

And I'm so sorry about your DS being upset. My 4-yr old has also expressed how much she wants a baby brother or sister, and it's hard when you want so badly to give them one.

Thinking of you,
Mary

Thank you ladies. My d&c was scheduled for tuesday but I have started bleeding. On my way to the hospital.

I'm so sorry for your loss! I think we were on the same BB. Sending you lots of hugs

i know how you feel and know what your going through. i lost two myself this past year, one was right before xmas. i was really excited and amlost died when i found out that i was having a miscarriage. so sorry for your loss..

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I truely know the horrible feeling of having to tell siblings that its not going to happen anymore. Sending you lots of comforting hugs and many prayers too.

Thinking of you. How are you doing?