Having a tough week

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Having a tough week

A really good friend of mine is due 5 days after I was supposed to be due. I am happy for her, but I just get so sad when she called to tell me about her u/s and seeing the baby's little arms and legs and stuff. I literally cried for hours straight the night she called me. I am supposed to be seeing that too. I should be feeling my baby kick in the next few weeks, finding out if it's a boy or girl, etc.!

I still haven't stopped bleeding and cramping from the D&C a week ago, so it's like it's just still dragging on.

I know things will get better with time, but my heart is just so extremely broken.

Thanks for letting me vent girls!

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Thanks for the hug WJennifer! I noticed you are in AZ, what part? I tried to PM you but couldn't find a link to do it.

It seems like you and I are in a pretty similar situation emotionally right now. Maybe we could meet sometime for coffee if we aren't too far away.

I am in NW Glendale.

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We probably don't live that far apart from one another. I would love to get together some time.

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hugs and hugs and arm fuzzies. I know how you feel. I have been there like 4 times so I so understand. Glad you can come here to vent, i am also glad you cired that is better then stuffing it doen. THis is the right place. I hope you two get together to chat, so cool you live close.

loveya
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If I could reach through the computer and hug you I would. Maybe you can explain to her that you are quite happy for her but it is really painful for you to hear about the milestones right now? Shelly

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I understand how you feel. One of our friends is due about two weeks before I should have been due in may. Its hard to see her, and to see how far along I should be. I found that things got a lot easier after the spotting and cramping stopped. You don't have that constant reminder every time you go to the bathroom, and for me that was when I finally felt like I could start to move on.

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:cry: I totally know what you mean. It just isn't fair. I am not completely certain this pain will ever stop. :bighug: (I need it too!!)

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I know how you feel too. My sister had her baby 3 weeks before I had Zara. It is hard seeing him and knowing my little girl should be doing the same things he is and that I should have a newborn now too. Life is so hard and just so unfair.

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Im so sorry. I understand this completely, my friend is pg, and she nevers seems concerned about whether it upsets me when its all she talks about. Im happy for her, but feel she does not truly understand my pain. Im sorry you are going through this too. Im sure it will get easier for both of us.