A really good friend of mine is due 5 days after I was supposed to be due. I am happy for her, but I just get so sad when she called to tell me about her u/s and seeing the baby's little arms and legs and stuff. I literally cried for hours straight the night she called me. I am supposed to be seeing that too. I should be feeling my baby kick in the next few weeks, finding out if it's a boy or girl, etc.!
I still haven't stopped bleeding and cramping from the D&C a week ago, so it's like it's just still dragging on.
I know things will get better with time, but my heart is just so extremely broken.
hugs and hugs and arm fuzzies. I know how you feel. I have been there like 4 times so I so understand. Glad you can come here to vent, i am also glad you cired that is better then stuffing it doen. THis is the right place. I hope you two get together to chat, so cool you live close.
I understand how you feel. One of our friends is due about two weeks before I should have been due in may. Its hard to see her, and to see how far along I should be. I found that things got a lot easier after the spotting and cramping stopped. You don't have that constant reminder every time you go to the bathroom, and for me that was when I finally felt like I could start to move on.
I know how you feel too. My sister had her baby 3 weeks before I had Zara. It is hard seeing him and knowing my little girl should be doing the same things he is and that I should have a newborn now too. Life is so hard and just so unfair.