Here again (child ment)

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Joined: 02/01/05
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Here again (child ment)

Well once again I am at a loss for answers. We found out two weeks ago that there was no baby just a sac. (blighted ovum) But it wasnt until today that I finally m/c. I feel like it has finally smacked me in the face and I couldnt live in denial any longer. I dont remember the cramping ever feeling this bad or taking so long to pass. I almost feel numb. I guess I was just so dumb to think that just because we finally have a child that we couldnt m/c anymore. Dumb huh? Eric has tried to be understanding but he isnt as affected as me. It just isnt real for him until the first h/b so since we didnt get that it was like over and done with in a day for him. That hardest part was we hadnt told family yet, so we had to call and tell our parents they were grandparents and not all at the same time. But thank God for them. This is one time in my life I can say my MIL is more understanding and supportive then my mom. MIL has experienced it and my mom just wants to move passed it.

I am so grateful for all the supportive ladies here just so wished I wouldnt have one more story to edit into my memorial post.

Joined: 11/19/05
Posts: 456

I am so sorry your loss another baby :bighug: And so sorry that your husband is not there for you like you really need him to be Sad Thank goodness for your MIL though....someone to talk to, someone who understands...

No, your are not dumb for thinking that since you have a child, mc would be something that you would not have to endure again....I would say that those thoughts are normal....Hoping that loss would be a thing of the past...

Know that we are all here for you....Take one day at a time...


Joined: 09/18/07
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"tisaboom" wrote:

I guess I was just so dumb to think that just because we finally have a child that we couldnt m/c anymore. Dumb huh?

I am so sorry that you find yourself here for another loss.

Your message hit home with me. I had a close friend who had a stillbirth so I stupidly thought that it had already happened to someone close to me it couldn't happen to me.

It is funny how we talk ourselves into these ideas.


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Joined: 08/09/05
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I am so so sorry honey. Sad

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Joined: 01/13/07
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I am so sorry for your losses. It breaks my heart everytime I see another story posted on this board. I am grateful that you at least have someone who is supporting you in the way that you need. I wish you peace.


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Joined: 06/08/05
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:bighug: I am So Sorry for Your Loss :bighug:

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I am so sorry for your loss. You have come to the right place.

Thinking of you.


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Joined: 12/16/07
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you.
Sending ((((((((HUGS))))))))

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Joined: 12/06/07
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child ment

i am so sorry for your loss. i too felt kinda the same way...i had a miscarriage 6 years ago and then had a child and didn't think it would happen again-it just did this week. i know the hurt you are going through, mentally and physically. hang in there-we can all help each other through our hard times! :openarms:

Joined: 03/16/15
Posts: 53852

I'm so sorry you're going through this again. I too thought that it just couldn't happen to me again, so don't think for a second that it was dumb for you to have hope. We're here for you whenever you need us.


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