I haven't posted here in awhile.... Somehow with the stress of my husband being gone and the crap my ex-friend pulled I just haven't been in the mood to post much. My Husband left 6 weeks ago on his deployment then my now ex-friend decided to pull a load full of crap on me which nearly put me over the edge.
Me and her used to share an Eb** account together where we both bought and sold things. Since my address was linked from PayPal I had to pay for all the fees and they had to pay me back for their fees. Well right before the September 1st payday she told me that Ebay was investigation the Seller' s account for fraud. Here I am already getting scared since I was the main seller. I began to think at night and talking to my husband about it when he could call that maybe she was a load full of crap. Then during the payday weekend I again get Instant Message that Mark, her husband was getting sued by EBay and that he get served in the Ship Office and NCIS was involved. I nearly had a heart attack for that one. Well after the weekend pass I was talking to the Neighbor who lives up the hill and she told me "Aurora something is not adding up, if that was the case they would be already at your doorstep. We will ask my husband tonight"
I forgot to mention that the Neighbor who lives next door to me is that ex-friends husband LPO- Leading Petty Officer. So Basically the neighbor is in charge of this Women's husband. Even Better for me. :O). I asked him that night and he said Aurora as this guys LPO what she told you is so untrue. I will get to the bottom of it tomorrow, plus get any money owed back to you. I was so grateful for him for this. The LPO talked to Mark, and Mark was like I didn't know she was doing this to her. Yeah Sure.
That weekend I told the Women she is never to talked to me again and if she ever showed up at my doorstep or Property they would be escorted off my Property by the LPO if hes home or the MPS (Military Police). You know what she told me that I was nuts I needed Mental help. I was like No, you do.
Well I am still waiting on to be paid back 125.00 ( They have known about this for two months) and I doubt she will ever Pay me back. If not they mentioned for me to get the Base Lawyers involved and have deducted from his pay. Not sure if they can do that.
Well anyways when my husband called we are going to try again. I am so excited! Wish us luck!
Last edited by MILITARYBABY; 09-22-2008 at 05:05 AM.
Thanks girls... I still cant believe this women chose to lie to me. Doesn't really make to much sense to me but really shows who your true friends are. Maybe I should have listened to my hubby a lot sooner because he told me he couldn't trust the things she always told us. I am thinking that she has two personalities (Bi-Polar) and she keeps wanting to push kids out. ( She has 8 kids already on an E-3 pay) The kids on the other hand are just as bad as the mom which means I know where they are getting their behavioral problems from. I babysat her two daughters for a week 24-7 earlier this year and man the 11 year old told me that I was a sl*t and a wh*re and God kills all babies from people like this.The 5 year old wasn't too bad but she was really ILL and my best judgment wasn't always listen too. The first day she returned to school at her Mothers insistence I found her after her bath with a high fever sleeping in the nude on the floor of my bedroom closet. I got her dress and laid her down in my bed after turning my fans on at high speed and called the mom and basically refused to send her to school the next day. By the way I didn't get a single cent for babysitting her girls for an entire week. Not even some grocery money or ask to restock my shelves with some things since all the food i had bought for myself was gone in 3 days
Shelly, how are you? Hows San Diego? Still expensive like usual? ( I am from Point Loma :O).)
Last edited by MILITARYBABY; 09-23-2008 at 08:34 AM.
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I'm sorry you've gone through so much crap with that "friend". And then you were helping her out with childminding too?! I reckon you're so much better off without her, and she lost her helper as well. So she lost twice really. Serves her right.
I hope it all works out for you, with the Ebay stuff.
You know when I watch their daughters which was back in March she was never this rude to me. You know if I only watch the 5 year old things would have only been a lot better. That 11 year said those things to me unwarranted and locked herself in the bathroom. Which I took the doorknob off afterward. You know what the Mother said to me don't ever do that to my daughter again. The 5 year old was "like mom, how was I suppose to go potty." The mom shut her mouth after that since she locked herself in my only only bathroom and wouldn't come out. She was lucky I didn't take the door off the Hinges. I was about ready too.
A few weeks later, the mom IM me and told me that all 11 years talk that way. Do they really?