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    Default I can't believe it's been 9 months!

    Nine whole months since we lost our little man. In some ways it feels like ti was only yesterday, but in others it's unreal. In some ways it's like it didnt happen at all. That probably sounds wierd, but i just can't believe that we went through that and came out of the other side still okay!

    I look back and i can really see how i've healed over the months. It's like at the beginning things were so dark and hopeless and yet it slowly got better and lighter. At the time i thought i was being normal, but when i look back i can see that i was withdrawn and quiet and not myself at all. Hopefully this mean that as time goes on i will continue to heal more and get better.

    I will always miss Zane with every single breath i take, but i can see a future where i dont spend every waking moment sad and it feels okay.


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    16 - 17 October 2006.

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    I am glad you have gotten to a place where there is so much more light, rather then darkness...

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    Thinking of you and Zane today.

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    Sorry i didn't get to give that to you yesterday. May the light you are finding keep getting brighter.

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    Glad to year you are coping well

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    Wow, your post is so touching sweetie. That sweet baby boy has touched a lot of hearts and we didn't even get to meet him...

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    Quote Originally Posted by BLP
    Wow, your post is so touching sweetie. That sweet baby boy has touched a lot of hearts and we didn't even get to meet him...
    Well said.

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    I've said it before and I'll say it again, Sarah, you're an inspiration! Zane and Vegas are so lucky to have you as their mother.

    ~Amber~

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    Sarah, the night Zane left you, Paul and I were terrified for you guys. We had no idea how you were going to cope. We needn't have worried, as a couple, you are stronger than ever before. You have come on so so far since then and I can honestly say you continue to suprise me with your strength and valient persuit of a happy future. You honour Zane in so many ways, but you have never allowed this tragedy to define you. That's an acheivement in itself. I personally think of Zane every day and always will, he touched so many people.


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