I finally called a daycare to tell them my baby no longer needs a space. They were super nice about it, and said they'd leave the baby there so when I get preggo again I'll be super-high on the waiting list.
I still should call a bunch more (there's about 10 lists I'm on), but I just can't bring myself to do it. Instead, I just called and told them my updated back to work date for my DD's space. The one I told was the only really important one because it is my first choice and I paid them to put the baby on the list.
Uggh. I wish this whole thing would just go away. It's been over a month and I'm still bleeding, still getting BFP's, still dealing with the aftermath. At least I'm coming to terms with going back to work earlier than expected.