I finally did it. (child ment.)

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squirlyj's picture
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I finally did it. (child ment.)

I finally called a daycare to tell them my baby no longer needs a space. They were super nice about it, and said they'd leave the baby there so when I get preggo again I'll be super-high on the waiting list.

I still should call a bunch more (there's about 10 lists I'm on), but I just can't bring myself to do it. Instead, I just called and told them my updated back to work date for my DD's space. The one I told was the only really important one because it is my first choice and I paid them to put the baby on the list.

Uggh. I wish this whole thing would just go away. It's been over a month and I'm still bleeding, still getting BFP's, still dealing with the aftermath. At least I'm coming to terms with going back to work earlier than expected.

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:bigarmhug: That must have been really difficult.

We all wish this whole thing would go away, but we can't make it so. Just get through each day (or each hour if you have to).

Janel

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I'm so sorry. :bigarmhug:
Having to tell (anyone) is so difficult!

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Hang in there girl. I would suggest either sitting down and just calling them all and getting it over with or if your DH will, ask him to call them all. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

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Im sorry (((HUGS)))

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:bighug:

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I am sorry that you have to deal with this...would your DH make some of the calls?

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I'm so sorry! It's a very hard thing to do...but that's great they will keep you high on the list-I hope you need it soon! i agree though-I would get someone else to make the rest of the calls or you could just not call and when they call you, maybe you will just have to change the date!

Nicole

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Oh honey. That had to be really hard. Big cyber hugs coming your way.

Shelly

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I'm going to not call until I'm pregnant again. I wasn't going to be getting the space soon, since I was taking over a year of leave, so it's not like they are going to be call me any time soon.

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Im so so sorry, that must be such a difficult thing for you to have done. Hugs

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:bigarmhug::bigarmhug::bigarmhug:

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O dear, hygs and kisses and fuzzies. I am so sorry that it is so hard. I think you are making the right decision. I think your number one choice must be really a good one as they sound very empathetic. You just take your time. Your body sounds like it still needs time to mourn the loss,give yourself the time to grieve it needs. Some women can take up to 6 weeks to stop bleeding, but if it bothers you go see your dr.

loveya
SAbrina
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((HUGS))

Karen

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:bighug: