I hate this

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Last seen: 7 years 5 months ago
Joined: 11/19/08
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I hate this

I had a miscarriage with a D&C on 12/19/08. I should have been almost 11 weeks by that time, but they think the baby stopped developing at 6-7 weeks.

I can't stop obsessing about the baby I lost, the future I lost, and reading my old birth board and getting P*SSED at all the women complaining about their morning sickness or other PG symptoms.

I am single, 35, and with no prospects for boyfriends/husbands in the near future... I am obsessing about 'running out of time' to ever have a baby, as well as being scared to get PG again because of the fear of another m/c.

I just want my baby back. I want to be planning a nursery and get excited about being in the 2nd trim, etc... instead i'm supposed to 'move on' and be 'normal'.

this sucks.

Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 03/16/15
Posts: 53852

It does suck. I'm sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to have your clock ticking away.

Last seen: 1 year 5 months ago
Joined: 11/14/08
Posts: 105

I am so sorry for your loss. I m/c on Nov. 13 at 10 1/2 weeks. I have alot of the same feelings as you do. There are good days and bad days. If you want, come join us on the Trying to Conceive After a Loss Board. Not everyone on that board is trying to conceive. It is a more active board with some wonderful ladies who will offer you lots of understanding and support!

Last seen: 2 years 9 months ago
Joined: 01/25/02
Posts: 2023

I second Tammie, it is much more active over there at ttcal and not everyone there is ttc. And I feel your pain as well. I never knew how annoying pregnant complainers were, until my losses. Wink Hugs!

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Last seen: 5 years 2 weeks ago
Joined: 09/23/08
Posts: 23

i am oh so very sorry for your loss and what you are going through...i do know the feeling of anger when other people are "complaining" about their pregnancies....:bigarmhug: