I am very sorry you are going through this. I started bleeding and went to the ER at 13 weeks. They told me there was no heartbeat and i miscarried naturaly 2 days later. However the baby only measured 8 weeks. So technically it took 5 weeks to m/c (they diagnosed mine as a missed miscarriage), but once i started bleeding it was only 2 days. Have you already started to cramp and bleed? If so you may not be far off, of course every m/c is different.
I am so sorry for your loss, unfortunately it could take weeks- I would assume if nothing happens in the next couple days your doc will recommend a d&c. I also had a fetal demise, at 12 weeks, and my baby measured right on- I had a D&C the very next morning.
Again I am so sorry
First off I am very sorry for your loss! We went for a u/s on 5/15 and I should have been 10wks 3days baby measured a little over 5wks so as barto9729 I was also diagnosed with a missed m/c! However when we got home I was starting to spot, I bled lightly til the morning of the 19th when the cramping and passing the large clots started! It lasted heavy like that all day and then I continued to lightly bleed for about another week and a half! So that was my experience! Hope it goes as smoothly as it possibly can! Once again I am soo sorry and please feel free to pm me if you need anything at all!! You will be in my prayers!
Amy, I am so sorry for your loss. Every situation is different.
with my loss, I was told @ 7 weeks there was no hope, and I chose to have a natural m/c. My body had actually absorbed my little one by about 9 weeks. at almost 12 weeks is when the m/c started with heavy cramping and bleeding. I bled for about 2 1/2 weeks.
However like I said , every one is different...it is very important, to make sure you don't start to run a temp,have chills etc., as this could be a sign of infection....which is what happened to me a few days after my m/c started & my quack of a dr. did not pick up on it, so I ended up in the ER !!
I am hoping that you do not have a difficult time physically...
feel free to pm if you want to.
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The ladies have already given some great advice..
My experiences have all been different. With some I had D&C's...With the others, my body let go naturally. For me, this usually happened within hours or a few days of spotting. That said, typically, it should be within 2 weeks. Your doc should be keeping an eye on you.
I am so very sorry for your loss
This board is full of wonderfully supportive women...You are in good hands..
Thank you so much for the advice ladies. I have felt slight cramps on and off so far but no bleeding yet. I have a follow up appt this thursday with my dr. Im assuming we will discuss my options if my m/c has not startd by then. Im so glad to have a board like this with women like you to talk to! It has really helped me alot. I have never been though something like this before being this was my first pregnancy so its good to be able to talk to others that have been through it as well. I ill keep you all updated. Sorry for all of your losses as well!