I lost the baby!

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I lost the baby!

even though they didn't see a baby they just saw a yolk sac and I was suppose to be 9 weeks already and I haven't mc yet but on tuesday I'm going to go get meds to insert so I could mc naturally that or a d&c and I don't want one. but the doctor said I could try again in 3months. I am very sad and stressed but I know I'll feel better soon I just need to talk to people and I'm sorry for all of ur losts.
p.s. sorry about my signtures.
crystal

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I am so sorry for your loss! Lots of hugs coming your way!

Andrea

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I'm so sorry for your loss ((Hugs)).

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I'm sorry hon. I was there last year, go in for that first appt to hear terrible news. :bigarmhug:

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Wow our stories sound very similar. I am going to call today and just schedule the D and C i think. I just want it over with and it seemed like my dr was hinting at that anyways. I hope your appt goes well. Lean on me if you want, as i am in the same boat. Wish we could go together IRL, as i kind of just want to do this alone right now but would go with someone who knows what it feels like, gladly! :confused:

Take care and let us/me know how it goes. I know how you feel right now ... let's get through this together.

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I am so very sorry for your loss. It was still a baby to you.

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:bigarmhug: I am so very sorry

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Dear Crystal,

I am so sorry for your loss. I can totally relate -- that's happened to me too, and it was the most devastating shock I've ever experienced.

I'm glad you've posted here. We're going to help you through this.

Bear hugs,
Nicole

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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I can relate to what you are going through. We were supposed to go in for our first us this week and 2 days before the appt. I started bleeding. I had to go a day early to get the us done and they couldn't find a heartbeat. I had the option of letting the miscarriage happen on its own or getting a d&c. I chose the d&c. When I went home last night the miscarrriage started happening. I had to go back today for another us and their is more inside that didn't pass so I still need to get the d&c. I can't wait until the physical part of this is over. I feel so empty and am sick of getting poked and prodded. We tried for 3 1/2 years and finally got pregant and I can't believe that it ended this way. I just feel like our hopes and dreams have been crushed. I'm not even sure how to deal with this but I'm sure it will get better as time goes on. Please know that you're not alone in this, even though it doesn't make it hurt any less. I hope that we can be there for eachother as we get through this difficult experience.

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I'm sorry. I have BTDT with the infertility issues. It is another slap in the face and seems to sting a litte more. Keep your chin up, and hold on to that sliver of hope.

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(((Hugs))) I'm so sorry for your loss Sad You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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I am so so sorry. I went through something very similar only a few weeks ago. I hope you are doing alright sweetie. Just take it easy and come here to vent anytime you need. It really helps and the pain does get better. Hugs!

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I am sorry for your loss.
Laurie

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I am very sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry for your loss and frustration. I had a blighted ovum in October. Waiting for something to happen is the worse. I am sending you hugs and courage.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I have had 2 m/c in 6 months. I had a D&C with the first and let the 2nd happen naturally b/c I did not have insurance and could not pay for the D&C. I would recommend a D&C to anybody over the natural option. It was faster, less pain and less risk. Give yourself time to grieve and heal.