I don't know which to feel more sad over, but I'm feeling so down right now and could really use a hug. I should be getting my "big" u/s this week. We're leaving Saturday to spend 2 weeks with our families and DH and I planned on telling our families the sex of our baby at Christmas. We lost that pregnancy. We conceived again in October and planned on telling our families at Christmas since I'd be in my 2nd trimester, well, needless to say, I've got nothing to share anymore I'm just having a "feel sorry for myself" day I guess.