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    Default I think it may be starting on its own (m/c ment) Update

    Sorry maybe TMI

    For about 4 ish days i would use the bathroom and there was light brownsih blood that was stringy, alot of tint to the paper and then a few strings that were darker if you understand what i am trying to explain. It was not consistant. Well, today it has been consistant and same brown tint, until this last time, the brown tint is getting red. Is this the start of the miscarriage that my body is doing on its own. dh is en route home, i hope he makes before if and when i have to go to the ER to get a d&c completed. I have very minor cramping, nothing worse then a period right now. If you can and feel comfortable sharing, can you relate to this? What do you think - will it get worse quickly (maybe depending on everyones body, every is different) will it become more painful? I havent brought myself to read some of the stories here yet, im sure this is explained in some of them, but at this time i am not ready.

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    Thanks girls for your thoughts and imput. I still have no pain, very dull back ache nothing that has stopped me in my tracks. I am still up cleaning and doing things to be done before dh gets here. I am bleeding bright red now, but honestly i just feel like i have my period. I'm definitly expecting it to get worse, i will dose up on some motrin 800 before bed and hope for the best. My fear is waking up in a pool of blood. I have super heavy maxi pads, that look like a diaper. I was thinking about depends, because i didnt know what the flow would be like..

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    I'm glad your DH is on his way home. The same day mine turned from brown to red was the same day I lost the baby. It took about 12 hours. The pain for me was the worst right before I passed several large clots. The cramps felt like severe cramps and I also had awful back pain. Like you said everyone is different. I have read some stories where women didn't have any pain. I'm so sorry you are going through this. PM me anytime.

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    Do you have strong pain medication that you can take now??

    I agree with the pp. You will have a bit more warning..the strong lower back ache...That said, for me, typically I would lose the baby when what you have mentioned above, in the op, had started.

    GRAPHIC: If this is the case. You may want to keep a plastic container near by...Some women like to bury their babies...I know I did (in a stone planters pot)



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    Quote Originally Posted by mom@41
    GRAPHIC: If this is the case. You may want to keep a plastic container near by...Some women like to bury their babies...I know I did (in a stone planters pot)Marie
    That is good advice. I wish I would have had the foresight. In the moment i was too distraught.

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    I am so sorry you are having to go through this sweetie.

    I dont have any advice to give, but i wanted to send you some hugs.



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    How are you doing today?

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    I am doing great today,thanks for asking.. i took the motrin before bed and slept very well. Still bleeding, but not a heavy flow. I even have alot of energy, this is all so weird to me. I just want to it be done and over with (that might sound bad) which for that to happen would be to ge the D&C, but i have to wait til dh is here.. any time now. And i think i am going to go to the ER to get it done, my doctor has been such a dink this whole time. HE said " a miscarriage is a part of life, it happens, get over it" UM... go to hell! Will most hospitals preform a d&c in the ER- or if i went in would they get it done, whether in the ER or sending me to the ob part and having an ob/gyn do it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennana1120
    HE said " a miscarriage is a part of life, it happens, get over it" UM... go to hell! Will most hospitals preform a d&c in the ER- or if i went in would they get it done, whether in the ER or sending me to the ob part and having an ob/gyn do it?
    What?! GRRRRR...That makes me so mad. I'm not sure what the ER will do. I would suspect that they would ask you who your doctor is...

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    It doesnt sound bad that you want it to be over with. It must be a very painful experience in a lot of ways.



    Sorry you have to deal with such a pratt of a doctor too. Miscarriages may be relatively common, but that doesnt mean it's not heartbreaking for those going through it!! Typical that it would be a man to say that. He'll never have to go through it. ****!

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    Just wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you a lot & I hope DH gets home soon

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