I hope you don't mind me posting here to ask your opinion on something. My freind lost her little boy at 20 weeks in July last year. She is now 11 weeks pregnant and I'm starting to think about when she gives birth (everything is fine so far, her last loss was tragic, but not expected to happen again).
Is it appropriate to mention her little boy when she has her next LO? I'm thinking here of when I write her a card (she collects and saves all her cards, so I'm always aware of what I write in them!)- should I refer to her angel in heaven? I dont want to pretend he doesnt exist on a day where they'll have such joy over a brand new life, but at the same time, I'm sure she'll be thinking of her other LO - she is still having such a hard time since he passed away.
What do you think?