Im feeling better(mc ment)

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Im feeling better(mc ment)

I started to miscarry on my own like an hour ago and as strange as it may sound its making me feel better. I guess its just the fact that things are happening the way that nature intended for them to happen. The way my mind works I would have always had this nagging feeling that maybe they made a mistake and that everything was fine and that I shouldnt have had the DNC, but now that things are happening on their own I feel better about it. I talked to my doctor and she said I will have to have an ultrasound tomorrow to make sure things are all gone and hopefully they will be. Thanks for all your kind words it really helped.

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I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I can absolutely relate. I miscarried naturally at home last Tues. and it is comforting in a weird way to know that nature is taking over and that you don't have to wonder. Unfortunately, I also had to have a D&C three days later because I was still bleeding heavy and my cervix wasn't fully closed yet. I will be thinking of you. If you get scared, don't hesitate to ask any questions. Again, I am just so sorry you are experiencing this. My heart goes out to you.
--Kendall

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i'm glad that things are moving along for you. i hope when you go to the dr tomorow that everything is ok...take it easy and just remember we are all here for you if you need to talk.

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Nicole

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I'm sorry your having to go through this but I'm glad it's happening naturally. I also opted to have my m/c naturally at home and I know I made the right choice.
I only had pain for about 4/5 hours and I hardley blead at all, I hope yours is quick too!
If anything does go wrong (we pray that it doesn't) you should go to ER asap!
(((hugs)))

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I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad that you are feeling better since the miscarriage has started naturally.

Let us know if you need us.

Robin

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I can relate to wanting nature to take its course. I wouldn't get a D&C when I lost my first child. I was in denial, but I'm glad I didn't get it and wonder if I did the right thing, you know? Anyway, we are here for you. I hope it goes quickly and as painlessly as possible for you.

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I am sorry for your loss.
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I am sorry for your loss, but I am glad that you are having things happen naturally. I can tell that is the best thing for you. I wish you peace and strength.

Shelly

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I am so sorry for your loss and I so understand what you are feeling and saying. Yes i have been there and it feels way better for it to happen naturally then otherwise. Give yourself time and take real good care fo yourself.

loveya
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I had a natural miscarriage on Friday night. I didn't have to choose between a natural miscarriage and a D & C because I didn't know that I was going to have a miscarriage until my bleeding got worse and I started having cramps on Friday morning. It happened quite suddenly on Friday night. I went the the bathroom, and before I knew it, my baby was gone. After that the cramps and bleeding slowed down a lot. On Sunday I felt like I was just having a normal period, but now I am having cramps again. I don't know why.