I'm scared

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I'm scared

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Tomorrow is the egg retreival day. IVF will probably be on Friday. I don't know why, but I feel like I am dishonoring Tess by doing this so soon. I'm 40 and don't have lots of time. I'm scared that we won't get pregnant or if we do, I'll lose another.

Pray for us please. The surgery is tomorrow at 7:30am.
Lisa

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I am so sorry you are in this situation. I do not think you are dishonoring Precious Tess. I think, more than anything, she wants you to be happy, even if she can't be with you right now.

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Lisa,

You are going to do really well. Tess, I am sure can understand. I am sure she wants you to be happy. I know I want my parents to by happy.

Best of luck tomorrow, and I will pray that everything goes fantastically.

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Sweetie you are not dishonoring Tess. In fact, I think she's pulling for you all the way! If anything, you're just trying to give her a sibling.

Much luck and hugs!!!!

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Wishing you all the luck in the world. I'll be thinking about you and Tess. Just know that this is no dishonor to her. All our personal beliefs are different, but I've always believed that the best way to honor those we've lost is to live well and fully.

All the best ... I'll be rooting for you!
Jen

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Honey you are in no way dishonouring your precious Tess.

Most children love to have siblings and i am sure it's no different for our little angels.

I will be praying for you tomorrow. I hope everything goes smoothly for you.

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