Introducing myself...

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Joined: 05/18/06
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Introducing myself...

Hello everyone,

My name is Tara, and I recently had my first miscarriage. My baby stopped growing at 6w0d, but I didn't start bleeding until 7w4d. I had a natural miscarriage and just stopped bleeding yesterday. I am very happy to have that over with!

Emotionally I think I am doing OK; I am (mostly) over the sadness, but into full on jealousy of other pregnant women. I just don't want to look at them. When they complain about how uncomfortable they are and how they can't wait for it to be over, I just want to smack them. But really, I'm fine! Lol

I am looking forward to getting to know you all and I will continue to come here during those particularly difficult moments.

Joined: 11/19/05
Posts: 456

I am so sorry for your loss Sad

You are gonna have many ups and downs....Just let them come and know that we are here for you..

The jealousy you have regarding pregnant women is completely normal....The other feelings (when one who is preg complains about aches/pains..wants it to be over with) will stay with you to some extent, even when you get pregnant again one day... When one has suffered loss, it is just so hard to hear that kind of complaining, as you know.

We are all here for you, whenever you need us :bighug:


Joined: 09/18/07
Posts: 371

I am so sorry for your loss. The women on this board have been a great help for me and I'm sure they will also help you on your grief journey.

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Joined: 08/09/05
Posts: 1176

So sorry for your loss hun.

Marie is right, those feelings of impatience with pregnant complainers never leave you.


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:angel2: Zane. Delivered by c-section at 41 weeks. Died due to Vasa Praevia. 16-17 October 2006
:angel2: Ada. Delivered by c-section at 25 weeks. Her heart just stopped. No explanation. 7 September 2007
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Joined: 01/13/07
Posts: 814

I am so very sorry for your loss. I do want to say that what you are feeling is completely on course. It has been four and a half months since our loss and I still have my moments when I am utterly jealous of pregnant women. I still have a hard time listening to women complain of their problems with a pregnancy or with their baby having the sniffles. I then feel horrible because I know that was me so long ago. It will become more manageable. hang in there and come here any time that you need to.


Joined: 03/16/15
Posts: 53852

I am so sorry for your loss. This is a great site to be on. All the ladies are very supportive.
Let us know how we can help you through this horrible time.


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Joined: 06/08/05
Posts: 32

:bighug: I am So Sorry for Your Loss :bighug: