I was thinking about getting a charm or bracelet or pin... something with the mom in the heart or something symbolizing a loss. I tried searching the internet for miscarriage jewellry but found crap sites. Any ideas???
I think jewellery is a great idea. It's a permanent tribute that keeps our angel babies close to us at all times, especially if it's a piece of jewellery we never take off.
When I was searching, I couldn't really find anything I liked either (websites, etc). So my DH and I decided to go for a conventional piece of jewellery (an anninversary ring), with the names of our angels engraved on it. We decided to have the engraving done on the inside of the ring (just like we get done to our wedding bands) because our 7 year old would wonder why her name isn't there too. Her big sister knows of our losses, because she's much older (19). But our younger girl doesn't know about the m/c's yet (and doesn't need to know yet -- not for a long time).
I think you and your DH should choose whatever piece of jewellery you like, and I think it's a nice idea to have "Mom" engraved there too.
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I would try and find a local jeweler. I was given an "Angel ring" by the Chaplain when I lost our son and wore it around my neck every day until his due date passed. I realized, wearing it everyday didn't allow me to move on. I think I will have something made soon to symbolize all four losses, I just haven't had the strength to do it just yet... I'm too scared to add to the loss count. Good luck!
I think that jewelry is a good way to memorialize a loss. Every time I go to the mall, I walk through the Things Remembered store just to look at all of the beautiful things they have there. They specialize in engraved gifts, so I think it would be a great place to get a personalized item to remember your angel by.