I'm doing memorial cards for a lady who ordered them through my website...and her story just breaks my heart.
So im sending her cards ( i didn't charge for my time) but i wanted to do something for her so she can keep forever and when she gets sad she can look at it...so i made her this 8X10 photo with poem...the babies face in the photo is her baby, i photoshoped an image i found. I was going to put this in a frame and send it when i send her memorial cards as a special gift from me.
My question is....do you think she'll like this ..or do yo uthink it would upset her that i ps'd the babies face here?
Hmmmm...maybe send it w/o the pic and let her know that you can also do one with a pic if and when she would be ready for something like that. My loss was very early and I still get upset looking at the u/s pic and only pull it out sometimes. IMO, I wouldn't giver her the one with the pic of her baby. Btw, it is beautiful.
I would love that. I only have a couple pictures of my baby and there are hard to see. Polaroids from hospital. I don't know what stage of grief she is in. If it just happened don't send it with the picture but if it has been 4 or more months send the picture.