I went Tuesday for my f/u appt after my m/c this weekend. The Dr I saw I had only seen once before. She started off the conversation by telling me I had to wait 6 months to get pg again. Not a big deal b/c I can't handle another loss. DH and I have discussed it and we want to wait 6 months. But she could have shown some compassion and not just jumped into that. Then she did the vaginal exam and said my cervix was still open and she could see tissue so went in with forceps and was all digging around in there trying to get a hold of it to pull it out. I was biting my hand to keep from yelling. Her nurse pats me on the shoulder and said "don't forget to breathe." I almost hit her. Then I had to go for a sono to see if the uterus was empty or if I would need a D&C. Between the Dr office and the sono I passed the clot she was digging around in there after. I also started cramping more and bleeding more. I went back to the Dr office where she told me that the sono showed the uterus was empty so no D&C. I called DH crying between the Dr office and the sono. I felt the dr was so mean and not compassionate. I am getting on bc as soon as it is ok. I will be seeing another Dr next time around. I did not have a good experience with this one.