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    My little angle would have been 4 on Nov 10. I still cry over him, and my boyfriend seem to thank that having a nother baby will make that pane go away. The baby I loss was not his so he don't unerstand they pain off it. I do understand what he is trying to do, he trying to make me feel o.k. with the loss. If all I need to get over the lost was a baby then I would be over it becouse I have an allmost 3 year all, little girl. So I can't tpye anymore can see what I'm tpye, what I rilly like to know is do the pain ever lessen?

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    Honestly? I dont think so. I have just learned how to exist with the pain so that it happens less and less often. When it comes it hurts as bad, but it leaves me be for longer at a time.



    I'm so sorry you had to suffer a loss. Your boyfriend seems like he is just doing what most men seem to do in this type of situation. It is in their nature to want to fix things and to try and make us feel better. We know that any subsequent babies we might have are no replacement to those we have lost. It sounds like he is at least being supportive, if anything.

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    I am so sorry that this time of year still gets you upset. I don't think that will ever change because you love the baby that you lost. Unfortunately it is not easy for someone who has not walked in our shoes to understand. Your boyfriend is supporting you as best as he can given that he doesn't fully comprehend your grief.

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    Thanks girls.

    I do know that he is trying to be supporting. I don't get make at him or anything like that. I just need to vent to someone that would understand I gass. I'm doing o.k. today. Yesterday was a bad one.

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    Sorry to hear that you had such a rough day yesterday- glad today is going a little better.

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    I am so sorry it is still so tough for you. I don't think the pain will ever go away but I pray that it will be less. I am sorry for your loss. Please know I think your boyfriend is only trying to help FIX things.

    Robin

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    Thanks you all for the sported.

    O.k. I can't seem to get me sig to stop showing on me host some help peace.
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