hello ladies my name is abby i been married for 5 yrs ttc for the same amount of time...finally got pregnant my due date was march 29 2008 i found out today at 12 wks and 3 days that there was no heartbeat and my baby had stopped growing...im devastated..many ladies told me to post here...im trying to be strong but i cant help but cry....thanks ladies...
Last edited by LauraT; 09-17-2007 at 11:04 PM.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. A loss at any stage is heartbreaking, but being as far along as you were must be very tough. We fall in love with our beans within hours of getting a bfp. Its more painful after ttc for so long too.
After my loss I went to the library and took out every book on m/c and one book was specifically pointed to people who loose babies after going thru infertility. I'm not sure of the name but you can probably find it.
Oh honey i know that achey heart feeling so well! I am so so sorry that you had to be referred here, but glad you sought us out. It's been a comfort to me to know that there are people who are going through the same thing as me.
I am so very sorry for your loss. This is definitely the place to be to let it all out. Crying is something that you will be doing for a while. There are moments where you will be fine and then WHAM!! it hits you all over again. Come here and vent and cry and lean on the ladies here. I know that I have. This board has been a link in my sanity. I hope that you find peace.