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    hello ladies my name is abby i been married for 5 yrs ttc for the same amount of time...finally got pregnant my due date was march 29 2008 i found out today at 12 wks and 3 days that there was no heartbeat and my baby had stopped growing...im devastated..many ladies told me to post here...im trying to be strong but i cant help but cry....thanks ladies...
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    I'm sorry you have to be here Abby. My heart hurts for you. I too was due in Mar. I had a blighted ovum with a d&c on Sep7th. I think you can still be strong and cry. Hugs!

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I agree with the pp, you can cry and still be strong. The ladies on this board are a wonderful support system.

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    I am so sorry for you loss

    The ladies were right to send you here...as this board is full of wonderfully supportive ladies...

    I agree with the pp's...You can be strong, and cry....I will even go as far as to say you can be strong and throw things if need be!!

    We are here for you

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. A loss at any stage is heartbreaking, but being as far along as you were must be very tough. We fall in love with our beans within hours of getting a bfp. Its more painful after ttc for so long too.

    After my loss I went to the library and took out every book on m/c and one book was specifically pointed to people who loose babies after going thru infertility. I'm not sure of the name but you can probably find it.

    Tell your dh that i'm sorry for his loss too.

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    Oh honey i know that achey heart feeling so well! I am so so sorry that you had to be referred here, but glad you sought us out. It's been a comfort to me to know that there are people who are going through the same thing as me.


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    I am so very sorry for your loss. This is definitely the place to be to let it all out. Crying is something that you will be doing for a while. There are moments where you will be fine and then WHAM!! it hits you all over again. Come here and vent and cry and lean on the ladies here. I know that I have. This board has been a link in my sanity. I hope that you find peace.

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    I'm glad to see many people giving support to my sister Abby .. thank you all in this momment of sadness for our family.

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    thanks soo much all you ladies....i can't imagine doing this with out a support like you guys...
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    I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad you found this board.

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