Wow Sarah, thankyou so much for sharing. I spent hours reading through your webpage. You are such an inspiration, to go through so much, and yet be on this site constantly supporting and reassuring and giving info to other women. You should feel so proud of yourself, as I know you are of your two beautiful children.
Thank you so much for taking the time to have a look ladies. I was surprised to learn that the special care baby unit who looked after Zane for me after he was born (wonderful place!) have a link to my site on their web page. I'm so pleased! When i wrote to them after Zanes funeral enclosing a donation from friends and family (in lieu of flowers) i told them about the site and they asked me if i would mind them sharing it and i said of course i wouldn't. Their intention is to pass it on to other grieving mothers.