New here...(pg/loss/children ment.)

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thespian11's picture
Joined: 07/13/07
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New here...(pg/loss/children ment.)

Hi. New here and wanted to introduce myself. I'm 31 yrs old and have 5 month twin boys after almost a year of fertility tx. Much to our surprise - we found out this month we were pg. on our own! We were overwhelmed but excited and scared at the same time. I lost the baby and had an s&c yesterday. I'm still in shock. After a rollercoaster of feelings, I'm mostly feeling numb. Since it was so early we didn't tell anyone. I have my husband, but am feeling alone. I know I should feel blessed for the children I do have, but this loss is devasting to me. Even more so b/c it was conceived "naturally." Hoping to find some support here. Thanks for reading.


JulieTX's picture
Joined: 01/30/09
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Stacy. Huge hugs....

Joined: 03/16/15
Posts: 53852

I am so sorry for your loss. I sending some hugs and prayers your way.

Child ment

We adopted as we could not get pregnant, we did the infertility thing too. A few months after we adopted I found out I was pregnant and lost the baby at 8 weeks. I went on to get pregnant again the next month and have a two year old. Hang in there.

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Joined: 04/03/07
Posts: 1271

Stacy, I'm so sorry for your loss....sending many hugs and positivE thoughts your way :bigarmhug:

stupidcomputer's picture
Joined: 12/11/08
Posts: 374

So sorry for your loss...

cdokter's picture
Joined: 02/18/08
Posts: 126

I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't tell anyone this time either (we lost our first baby too) and I know what you mean about feeling alone. Last time, I could hardly stand all the people asking me questions and sending thier sorry's. This time, no one knows unless I tell them and I wonder if they even notice that I"m sad. Life is going on without me right now and it's very strange. Again, I'm very sorry for your loss.

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Joined: 11/13/05
Posts: 57

I am so sorry. Maybe it would help to talk to some close friends or family? I know that has helped me.

Big hugs.

Joined: 01/25/02
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I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers. Infertility and miscarriage are such lonely lonely roads!

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