Hi. New here and wanted to introduce myself. I'm 31 yrs old and have 5 month twin boys after almost a year of fertility tx. Much to our surprise - we found out this month we were pg. on our own! We were overwhelmed but excited and scared at the same time. I lost the baby and had an s&c yesterday. I'm still in shock. After a rollercoaster of feelings, I'm mostly feeling numb. Since it was so early we didn't tell anyone. I have my husband, but am feeling alone. I know I should feel blessed for the children I do have, but this loss is devasting to me. Even more so b/c it was conceived "naturally." Hoping to find some support here. Thanks for reading.
Last edited by thespian11; 05-01-2009 at 10:31 AM.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Stacy. Huge hugs....
38, DH 39
TTC#1 w/ DH#2
Previous IF history in former life... Ex: MFI; Me: unexplained
Multiple cycles of IUI and donor sperm; moved to int'l adoption
May be cycling in November if we can get the insurance company to approve IVF for us. GRRRR.
I am so sorry for your loss. I sending some hugs and prayers your way.
We adopted as we could not get pregnant, we did the infertility thing too. A few months after we adopted I found out I was pregnant and lost the baby at 8 weeks. I went on to get pregnant again the next month and have a two year old. Hang in there.
Stacy, I'm so sorry for your loss....sending many hugs and positivE thoughts your way
I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't tell anyone this time either (we lost our first baby too) and I know what you mean about feeling alone. Last time, I could hardly stand all the people asking me questions and sending thier sorry's. This time, no one knows unless I tell them and I wonder if they even notice that I"m sad. Life is going on without me right now and it's very strange. Again, I'm very sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry. Maybe it would help to talk to some close friends or family? I know that has helped me.
I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers. Infertility and miscarriage are such lonely lonely roads!