Thread: New here...(pg/loss/children ment.)

Hi. New here and wanted to introduce myself. I'm 31 yrs old and have 5 month twin boys after almost a year of fertility tx. Much to our surprise - we found out this month we were pg. on our own! We were overwhelmed but excited and scared at the same time. I lost the baby and had an s&c yesterday. I'm still in shock. After a rollercoaster of feelings, I'm mostly feeling numb. Since it was so early we didn't tell anyone. I have my husband, but am feeling alone. I know I should feel blessed for the children I do have, but this loss is devasting to me. Even more so b/c it was conceived "naturally." Hoping to find some support here. Thanks for reading.

Stacy

I'm so sorry for your loss, Stacy. Huge hugs....

I am so sorry for your loss. I sending some hugs and prayers your way.




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We adopted as we could not get pregnant, we did the infertility thing too. A few months after we adopted I found out I was pregnant and lost the baby at 8 weeks. I went on to get pregnant again the next month and have a two year old. Hang in there.

Stacy, I'm so sorry for your loss....sending many hugs and positivE thoughts your way

So sorry for your loss...

I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't tell anyone this time either (we lost our first baby too) and I know what you mean about feeling alone. Last time, I could hardly stand all the people asking me questions and sending thier sorry's. This time, no one knows unless I tell them and I wonder if they even notice that I"m sad. Life is going on without me right now and it's very strange. Again, I'm very sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry. Maybe it would help to talk to some close friends or family? I know that has helped me.

Big hugs.

I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers. Infertility and miscarriage are such lonely lonely roads!