I am new on here.... and today was really frustrating.
I had a mc Christmas of last year, and also last week. I am surprisingly doing ok (considering what happened...) Each day seems to get better, and then people make comments!!
Why do people think they are doctors and insist that I would have carried my babies to full term if I would gain wait? Yes I am underweight, but not by much (Im 105 lbs) and my dr said this is NOT the reason I mc! Why can they not take my word for it that this is NOT the reason!! I have counted about 15 people that have told me this in the past week!!
And also, I feel bad that this comment upsets me, but the "God knows what He is doing/Leave it in God's hands and when it is His will, you will have a baby" comments frustrate me so much! Dont get me wrong, I am in love with my God... My DH and I are childrens pastors... I totally agree with these comments! But I Do not need to hear them every day!! I know this, and do not need reminding of it! I have too many emotions rolling through my head of WHY I do not have my 2 babies in my arms!
I know people are just trying to help... but still.
Anyways, thanks for letting me vent!!