New to this..and recently lost my daughter
On December 8, 2010 my daughter became an angel. It was the toughest day of my life. I decided to try this so I could find others to talk to who have also been through such a tragedy. I went into the ER on a Tuesday night (the 7th) and wasn't feeling right. I hadn't felt her move much but everyone kept telling me she was a bigger baby and I would be fine. I found out that night that there wasn't a heartbeat..at 34 weeks. My heart stopped too. I was 3 weeks shy of possibly delivering my baby and could not believe this was happening. I delivered her via c-section that next morning. In the last month, we found out that nothing shows on her autopsy. They have no answers and that has to be one of the toughest things for us to comprehend. She looks perfect. Like an angel sleeping. She was born a very healthy looking baby at 8 pounds. We had a funeral that next week. We have pictures that were done by a photographer. We've managed to get through all of the stepping stones but my heart still hurts so much. I miss her terribly. I thought talking to others might help.