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    Default New to this..and recently lost my daughter

    On December 8, 2010 my daughter became an angel. It was the toughest day of my life. I decided to try this so I could find others to talk to who have also been through such a tragedy. I went into the ER on a Tuesday night (the 7th) and wasn't feeling right. I hadn't felt her move much but everyone kept telling me she was a bigger baby and I would be fine. I found out that night that there wasn't a 34 weeks. My heart stopped too. I was 3 weeks shy of possibly delivering my baby and could not believe this was happening. I delivered her via c-section that next morning. In the last month, we found out that nothing shows on her autopsy. They have no answers and that has to be one of the toughest things for us to comprehend. She looks perfect. Like an angel sleeping. She was born a very healthy looking baby at 8 pounds. We had a funeral that next week. We have pictures that were done by a photographer. We've managed to get through all of the stepping stones but my heart still hurts so much. I miss her terribly. I thought talking to others might help.

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    I am so sorry for your loss, there really are no words. I have lost two children and the heartbreak seems almost unbearable. Sending you many many hugs and so sorry its so insuffient.

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    I am so very sorry for you loss. I am glad you came and shared your story with us. I think sometimes the hardest part was the “not knowing”. My father recently passed away from Alzheimer’s. We knew and had an understanding of why he died and what to expect. In this case you were blindsided with a loss of a child with no answers to your questions. In our society and the modern medicine we have learn to expect answers, these cases are ones of the few in which you may never know.
    The old cliché that it was “for the best” or “God’s plan” never made sense to me. I got that one a lot with my losses, I have to swallow my pride with that and just say thank you. I would look into bereavement groups in your area. {{hugs}}

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    I am so very sorry for your loss .

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