Hi all I have been on the boards for almost 4 years and once again we have been hit by another miscarriage from my loss on the October board has ended and my DH and I are still shocked by it. We went out to Eat for Brunch for Valentine's Day at Applebees and then went to Target and went back home. After being home for almost two hours we went to the base tailors and the Commissary and to Best Buy because the Exchange didnt have any cases I wanted. So afterwards my husband wanted to drive out to the Walmart in Poulsbo. I had to pee when I got there ( and peed twice while there) I started noticing brown spots and pain down there so Wayne took me to the Naval Hospital ER and I dont think they even took me serious because all they did was an Urine test for an UTI and sent me home with Tyenol.
Well when I got up Monday morning to pee to find that I have a lot more red spotting then last night and pretty bad cramps.I feel I like my Journey has ended and once again its on a Holiday. I found out I lost my first the day after my 26th Birthday, my second the day of/ day after 4th of July and this one looks like the day of/ day after Valentines Day
I dont why it keeps happening to me but all I know is that I have hormone problems to begin with for all 3 pregnancys. I was getting pregnant when I was only bleeding for three days
At 2 PM on Monday after the UPS truck showed up with all the baby gear that we had prchased with the tax refund check (that was a major slap in the face) we headed to the ER we got there around 220 got Triage and waited in the ER waiting room for 2 hours while I was actively bleeding and cramping and threw up a couple of times I finally got seened. They gave me some fluids, some pain/nausea/ itching meds they did a Pelvic Exam and an external U/S pretty much when I was seen on the 9th that I was actually 6 weeeks and 2 days and not the 4 weeks they said I was. My new U/S showed that there was no baby or sac and that was indeed a M/C. My quantitive was only 35 and it was 203 on the 9th
It pains me and my hubby to be in this position again for the third time but we know it wasnt meant to be. Emotionally I feel absolutely drained as this was something I wasnt expecting or ever wanting to happen again but yet again I find myself grieving for something that wasnt meant to be.
I see my OB on Thursday the 18th and I want answers as this has gone on long enough or can I take a 4th Miscarriage in a row. Pretty much since I have had three I can ask to see the Fertility specialist over at Madigan but that becomes the problem since I dont drive and my husband is deploying again. I am gonna ask if I can see someone in the area of Silverdale where I live so I can make these appointments and do this while he is gone. I pretty much think I have an hormonal issue and even to get a progesterone supplement it requires a Madigan appointment. I really hate how the Military works. Pretty much we are going to ask them on Thursday if we can try once again when he comes back in mid to late July because we cant wait another 4 years that we had waited to get pregnant from Hormonal Issues with me, my PE and a few other health complications that I have had to endured
Does the pain ever go away?