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newbie2all's picture
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Please pray...

Warning (MC MENT and CHILD MENT)

Most of you do not remember me. I was a member of this board suffering 2 miscarriages (1 in March 07 at 13 weeks gestation and another in June at 6 weeks gestation). In Oct I got pregnant again and have since gone on to a successful pregnancy and my son is 8 months old.

However this post isn't about me. It's for a friend who is just over 2 months pregnant and has been rushed to hospital. Please pray for her baby tonight. She had long-lasting spotting earlier in pregnancy. This week she fainted 3 times. She has not kept anything down very long. Now she is bleeding.

I feel like I should know what to do here...know what to say from experience...but I do not. I fear for her and am trying to think positive....but it's just a very difficult situation. Please pray for her tonight and her little one that they will both be okay.

And if it is not okay somebody please tell me what I should do or say. I know it's easy to think "hey I've been there and I want to help you" but she just might not be ready for that. Nobody should have to go through this. Sending my love to those of you that are. I hope that someday it will be in your cards as it was in mine, but I realize right now the hurt is more than most could tolerate.

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hugs and prayers for your friend. I think just being there for her, letting her know you are there to listen and help in anyway she needs would be great. I hope all is well.

Joined: 03/16/15
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Sending prayers.

AVoiceInTheWilderness's picture
Joined: 01/19/06
Posts: 85

Hey you....

I emailed you..

If the worst happens...cry with her, hug her, let her know that anything she needs..whatever it may be, that you are there for her..Let her talk, or if she dosen't want to talk, but wants you to stay... just sit there silently with her.

I am so very sorry that your friend is going through this....Let us know what happens?

Marie

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Joined: 02/02/07
Posts: 93

Unfortunately it's a tragic end to the story. The pregnancy was ectopic and had to be ended with surgery. I am not a very close friend to this couple but I'll try my best to be there for them in whatever way. I chose not to visit yet because I feel they will want their space. I hope in time I can show her this board as I really think this board saved my life after my first loss. In time I hope she will come here to be with all of you for support.

AVoiceInTheWilderness's picture
Joined: 01/19/06
Posts: 85

I am so very sorry to hear this Sad

I hope she will come here as well...

Marie

Joined: 03/16/15
Posts: 53852

I'm sorry for her loss.