Prayers Needed (M/C ment)

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Prayers Needed (M/C ment)

Hello. I've never been on this board before. I've lost 4 babies before I had my DD. Now I've lost another. I was unexpectedly pregnant. My husband and I had not been TTC and I was on the BCP but we still got a BFP on Aug 8th 2008 unfortunatly I started bleeding yesterday. Its certainly a M/C and I'm having some very mixed emotions.

I'm not relieved although I do understand that having a baby right now would have been very stressful for my husband and I. We have a 1 year old, I'm back in college. My husband is working on getting promoted and not to mention we're working on our marriage at the moment... so the news of a second baby was a shock and full of fear and stress... but it seems like just as we are getting used to the idea and grasping the news we loose the baby.... I'm so confused. I belive in God and I know He has His hands in everything. There is a reason for this... but it doesn't make it any easier. I was of course going to keep this baby.

And another problem I'm having is... with M/C it makes me want another baby so bad!! But my situation hasn't changed, it is STILL not the most great time to add to our family. Sad

I just need some support and prayers from whomever can offer them.

Thanks so much.

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Sweetheart I am so sorry. I know that Damien will keep a close eye on your little one.

I am only a PM away if you need me.

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I'm sorry Steph. Sad Whether it was a planned pregnancy or not, m/c is always hard. Hugs and prayers.

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I am so sorry for your loss:( :bigarmhug:

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that sucks, I'm sorry. take care

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HUn I know how hard it can be. I too wanted another right after my last m/c. Know that we are all here for you. If you need to talk, cry,vent anything you can pm or write to any of us anytime. I know its not easy but ur in my thoughts.

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I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a baby is a absolutely horrible experience.

You've come to the right place to 'vent' though -- the people on this board are fantastic support. Please write whenever and as often as you need to.

It's much, much easier to get through the grief when we have a community to help us with it, and we are that community for you. We all care, and we're going to help you through this.

Big hugs,
Nicole

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I am so sorry for your loss. My M/C brought DH and I even closer than before, I hope if anything good can come from this, is that it heals your marriage. Good luck sweetie.

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Im sorry that you are having to go through this no matter when the time is its never easy! It really sucks no matter what! I sure hope that you and your DH can heal from this and maybe even decide that having another is a good idea. Please take care of yourself. And vent away!

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hugs and prayers coming your way, steph....

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. And all of your previous ones as well. I'll keep you in my prayers.

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