As I have never been through a loss, I cannot say I know how you feel. What I would like to say is that all of you are stronger than I could ever be. I am sorry for your losses, and pray that you get all the support and love you need at this hard time. I know I can't make it "better" but hopefully, knowing that each of you has a place in my heart and in my prayers, will lend you some comfort.
All of my love,