Scary Time

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Scary Time

This is not the board I expected to post on this week. This is my first Pregnancy, this is week 6. Last week I had 2 positive test, what an exciting time, Monday when I went to my Dr. my urine was negative , the thought was it was a false negative and we had my blood drawn and made plans to see the Dr again this week. When we go the Blood Results Monday night the news wasn't good. My Hcg was only 13. Enough to say congratulations any other time, but my Dr felt this was probably a declining number since my HCG would had to have been higher to have positive test, he was surprised I felt so good. Last night I started to spot with occasional mild cramping. I'll be going back to the Dr. Today, I'd like to stay positive but I know it doesn't look good. I don't know what lies ahead this week, but I know this is one of the scariest things I've ever faced. Thank God for a great husband.

Julie

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I am so sorry for your loss. I know that you didnt want to be here - none of us did, but we're glad you came in your grief. It's a wonderful supportive board and these ladies help me in more ways than they know.

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Sarah, www.sarah-chambers.co.uk
Co-Host of Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support

DS Zane born at 41.5 weeks by c-section.
Lost as a result of Vasa Praevia at one day old.
16 - 17 October 2006.

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I'm so sorry.

Joined: 06/26/07
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Confirmed

My m/c was confirmed today, It is heartbreaking, how one week can hold so much emotion I week ago today I found out I was pregnant and now it's over before we could really celebrate. I'm lucky that I have great support between family and friends at work, I know too many people who have been where I am today. I'm also thankful for a place like this to share with others going through this now.
Prayers and Hugs to everyone.

Julie[

Joined: 03/16/15
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I'm so sorry for you loss. My second m/c was quick like yours. It does not allow you to digest your are pregnant before you have to accept you had a m/c.

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Missy

Joined: 03/16/15
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I'm so sorry for you loss. My second m/c was quick like yours. It does not allow you to digest your are pregnant before you have to accept you had a m/c.

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Missy

Joined: 06/26/07
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Update m/c ment

Thank you all for your support, today is the 4th day, and my bleeding is still steady, and the cramping is still steady. I'm not sure if it is all the m/c or AF
along with it. I wish I knew better what to expect my body to be doing. The crying jags have been less. My DH has been great but starting to focus to much for me on next time, I'm not there yet. I've tried to embrace my religious beliefs, but have found little comfort there which has left me unsettled. I want to trust in God and know he knows his plan for me or the baby, but I liked the plan last week better.

Julie

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Re: Update m/c ment

"jdbear" wrote:

My DH has been great but starting to focus to much for me on next time, I'm not there yet. I've tried to embrace my religious beliefs, but have found little comfort there which has left me unsettled. I want to trust in God and know he knows his plan for me or the baby, but I liked the plan last week better.

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We have had similiar experiences. I am so sorry for your loss and for what you are experiencing. It is great to rely upon family and friends in this time of need. That is the only thing that got me through the past few weeks.

Also, try again when you feel ready to try. The only advice that I can share is to be open and honest with your DH. Communication is key and IMO will make you feel better.

I understand your need to feel that God's plan last week was better than this weeks. I had a hard time grasping this concept of how/why this happened. DH and I now firmly believe that God answered my prayers to show me I can get pg; however, we feel that this baby was not yet ready to enter our world. Beliefs are very personal and individual and I hope you are able to find peace with what happened.

(((HUGS)))

Joined: 06/26/07
Posts: 17

Thank you for your kind words, I am sorry for your loss. Your post helps a lot. I am fortunate to have great support, My Mother went through a similar experience with her first, and when I return back to work next week I have too many co workers who have been there at some point, I hope that will make going back to work easier. Faith Friends and family will get us through.

Hugs and prayers

Joined: 06/26/07
Posts: 17

Thank you for your kind words, I am sorry for your loss. Your post helps a lot. I am fortunate to have great support, My Mother went through a similar experience with her first, and when I return back to work next week I have too many co workers who have been there at some point, I hope that will make going back to work easier. Faith Friends and family will get us through.

Hugs and prayers

Joined: 06/26/07
Posts: 17

Thank you for your kind words, I am sorry for your loss. Your post helps a lot. I am fortunate to have great support, My Mother went through a similar experience with her first, and when I return back to work next week I have too many co workers who have been there at some point, I hope that will make going back to work easier. Faith Friends and family will get us through.

Hugs and prayers