I was so devestated when the sonogropher told me my baby had died, i dont really remember much else apart from that horrible distraught feeling. I was laying in bed last night and wondering perhaps i should have asked for a picture. I didnt even look at my baby on the screen, everything was such a blur. My sister works at the hospital so im wondering should i ask her to get me a photo? Part of me really would like to see my baby, i think it may help the grieving process. But another part of me knows it will upset me incredibly and will it put me back to square one? I feel i owe it to my baby to see him/her so she/he is not just forgotten. What do you ladies think?