So angry (loss mentioned and big vent)

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So angry (loss mentioned and big vent)

I need your prayers ladies. I am so angry that I can't do anything but shake and cry right now. Two more families on this island have been devastated by that so called doctor. I am going to cut and paste my post from another board.

Many of you have heard about my loss being due to medical negligence from a Navy doctor and a Navy midwife.

Well, we are pursuing the matter legally. You would think that these women (yes, women) would not be allowed to damage any more lives by "practicing" medicine until this was straightened out. I mean come on, one has already cost the Navy a cool million and the other is currently in a lawsuit other than mine.

Well, the midwife has been keeping her nose clean so to speak. The actual ob/gyn is a whole other matter. This is what makes me so angry. Not only has she killed a woman with an unnecessary hysterectomy (the reason the navy paidout) but she killed my son as well (I know this I am just waiting to have it confirmed legally).

Well, now she has been involved in two more deaths here on island. She may only be indirectly involved with the death of the infant, but she is the one that performed the hysterectomy (non-emergent,,,,again) in which the patient died.

How many people have to die at the hands of this creature? How many families have to be shattered? My heart is broken anew for these poor families. It has made my resolve to stick it out til the end with my case even though it is hard reliving the loss of our son over and over and over in excruciating detail.

Thanks for listening ladies. I needed to get that out.

Shelly

Joined: 03/16/15
Posts: 53852

Dear Shelly,

I am so glad you vented it about this here. Wow -- that is huge and hideous stuff. I don't know how such people sleep at night.

I have bucketloads of faith that justice WILL prevail.

I am so sorry for your loss, and I totally admire both your courage and determination. I bet your son is looking down from heaven right now, feeling VERY VERY proud of his mommy.

Please keep on venting whenever you need to. We're here for you.

With love and respect,
Nicole

Joined: 03/16/15
Posts: 53852

Agh, that is SOOOOO horrible Shelly!!! That so-called Dr. has got to be banned from practicing. Hopefully she'll be pulled from duty before she is forced to legally, if any of her superiors had any brains they would do that before she kills MORE people. The whole thing is totally unreal. I can understand your anger and frustration. No one else should have to go through what you (and others) have because of her ineptness.

Keep us posted, I hope to hear some good news soon. Were these deaths recent?

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Joined: 01/13/07
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Within the last month from what I understand.

Sapphire Sunsets's picture
Joined: 05/19/02
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:bighug:

They need to improve the system, IMO.

My cousin went through yrs of not being able to concieve with army Dr's. She finally went to a specialist and found out why she was having a hard time.

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:bighug:

I am so sorry you and these other families have had to experience this pain. They should have been put on suspension (atleast their licenses) until the first matter was cleared or prosecuted. You are in my thoughts!