I have made my decission on the whole " friend" situation after talking the pros and cons of being her friend over with my spouse. I have decided in the best interest of me to officially cut ties with her for my husbands, mine Anna ( the cat she tried to steal by having her son walking out the front door with her umderneath his shirt- till I heard my little baby girl) and my other cat "Cosmic Creepers" (if any one is ever seen Bedknobs and Broomsticks his real name Snickers well he answers to both.)
I cant have the stress of her pregnancy, the her of asking for all my stuff, and not even respecting my wishes or my house rules when they are over here- after they leave its a disaster zone. With my husband deploying next week for around 17 weeks I cant have the stress of her always on my mind. When she starts badgering me I get in horrible moods and take it out on my spouse and we end up in the biggest fights. Also this women has no brains and she keeps saying to me I have 8 kids I know what I am doing- Oh really I beg to differ. I also just remembered something according to her she has 18 miscarriages. My spouse and I are having a hard believing her shes sort of a storyteller/ fibber. I think its way less.
I have really appreciate all of our honest opinions as it has really helped me come to my final decision.