so people don't know their lucky

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so people don't know their lucky

Ok,so maybe I'm extra hormonal cause AF could arrive at anytime,but dangit this peed me off just a little bit ago.I also post occasionally on the aol miscarriage board.Go there cause i see there's a new post(not a very active board) and there is a woman complaining about being preg and not sure if she could handle it anymore.And talking about how she wasn't going to try again after his one cause she would be too old(she was 34) and how she felt women over 35 trying to get pregnant were selfish cause there were more risks at that old of an age.If she was just talking about being scared of being pregnant again I would have been supportive but no she was actually complaining about it.On a miscarriage board!!!Ok,thanks for letting me vent about that,hope wasn't too long winded there,lol.

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ok,guess I came across a litle too *****y there huh?Thinking AF must be coming soon cause I have been that way all day.Maybe i overeacted to the girls post.So sorry if I offended anyone today by this post,was not my intentions at all.I just needed to blow up about it I guess.Been a rough day,keep going back and forth between crying and screaming.So anyway,if i upset any of you,that was not my intention and I am sorry.

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I dont think you sounded bi*chy. She is probably having a rough day but a miscarriage board isn't the place to vent those feelings. Sorry you had to deal with that.

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Thank Karen,you are sweet.Guess I am not ready to deal with everything just yet.

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Hi there,
I don't think you over-reacted AT ALL!!!!!! People just don't get it. I'm sorry you had to stumble upon that. Hugs to you.
-Kendall

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I really hope for her sake that she accidentally posted on that board, because to say such things on a board dedicated to loss and grief is unreal!

I'd have been pretty pissed too sweetie!

Try not to let it bother you hun! Some people just love create drama, no matter who they are hurting!

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Thanks ladies,you made me feel alot better by letting me know i haven't completely lost it yet,lol.I hope for her sake she did post that on the wrong board,hate to think anyone was really that heartless.

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People often speak before they think. I would think having a m/c that she would be more understanding about what she was saying, maybe she is just a complete idiot.

Anyway, hugs.

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(PG Ment)(Thing to Annoy Us Ment)

I'm sorry you had to deal with that! That is awful. I've lost four and praying this one makes it (just got out of the hospital and it doesn't look like my heart is planning on taking much of this... so praying I just get to 24 weeks, which is 10 weeks away.) Check my MySpace, after I wake up, check one of my Army groups, and the first msg. "Well, I've only had a few drinks since I've been pregnant, I'm 27 weeks, my friends invited me out to a club, and if I go I know I'll drink. I'm really stressed, what do I do?" ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME! Now, my responce, well, I didn't completely go off on her, but close!

People really need to think before they speak and have common sence! ARGh, but (((HUGS)))

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dang,what a moron there.I wish you only the best for your preg and I hope you make it all the way this time,you deserve it.

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She should be reported to a moderator...and told to shut the F#ck up.
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LOL LIsa,thanks for that but this board does not have moderators.Most of the people have enough sense not to say stuff to upset others

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That would have fired me up beyond belief. How dare she belittle what that board is meant for? I am so right there with you about being upset.

I would have written a really nasty reply, and hope that I would have had the good sense to pm her instead of flaming her on the board publicly.

All I can say is WTF?

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well,all i said to her back was ,oh how horrible to be pregnant.And left it at that,hoping she realized how she sounded.

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WOW! I have to say your post wasn't strong enough imo. That would be so hurtful to read on so many levels. I'm older than 35 and have an angel.

edit: I meant your original post here where you thought you might be b****y. Your reply to her was very classy.

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wow, how insensitive. Like PP said I hope she posted there on accident b/c if she didn't, she needs to be examined.

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Thanks ladies,I had to bite my tongue to keep from saying more believe me,and no she didn't post there by accident,she meant to.