Well, when I returned to work in Oct. there was a teacher on stafff who was preg. Oddly enough her pg didn't bother me. I think it is the way she was with me. She had genuine tears to share with me and seemed somewhat respectful of my space. While she was pg, another staff member who had her baby (sometime in august - the month I delivered Lily) dropped into school unexpectedly and I ran out of the staff room. This happened again with a male staff member whose wife came in.
Well I guess the teacher whose pg didn't bother me) got the hint. She had her baby girl in January. I just got an email from her giving me the date that she plans on coming into the school and the length of time she expects to be there. How thoughtful is she. I actually will try to see her little girl if I can handle it. I emailed back thanking her and told her that if I could handle it I would come into the staffroom and if not I'd stay clear. Her classroom is right outside my office so I am so relieved to know when she is coming.
Send big hugs to this person who is considerate of my feelings and doesn't expect that I should be over it by now!