Is there anything you would do differently or wish you had known prior to or just after the loss of your child?
We are at a cross roads where in 3 weeks the doctors will tell us that our baby (currently 23 weeks) is declining and will pass away in utero or is trying to make a come back. Either way we are preparing ourselves for either a loss or a very premature baby (currently 12 oz)and would really like to learn from anyone who has been there what they wish they knew or wished they had asked.
I support the doctors but feel it is my duties to go in with questions and to make sure if they urge induction that I insist the right specialists are on hand, etc.
Where do I begin? What has your experience left you with that you could pass along?
Either way is it not looking good for us.