It seems we will never know what was true and what wasn't, so i wouldn't waste your energy being too angry. There were inconsistencies, but we don't know exactly what was true and what wasn't. The support they received here may or may not have been warranted, but be glad that you all did the best for them that you could. Be proud of the support you show to all here and please, please, please don't let it affect how you treat people here. Most people are real with real losses (unfortunately). These women's losses may have been real to an extent. The truth is we don't know and we never will.