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    Default Thinking of my little one...(m.c. ment)

    I had my second m/c back in July...it was a complete and utter shock when we went in @ 13 weeks and no heartbeat, prior to that there was no indication that anything was amiss. I had a D/C a couple days later and of course we were heartbroken.

    I got a lot of support from this board at the time and I appreciate that very much.

    Now the due date is getting nearer and it's all coming back. I think I'm just posting this to acknowledge the loss and remember my little one. I don't want to let myself go back to feeling so sad, but then I feel guilty if I don't allow myself to think about it...not sure if that makes any sense.

    I guess in an odd way I still can't believe it happened, the whole thing just seems surreal in a way. When I think about it and I think OMG, I could be having a baby in a few weeks, it just crushes me.

    Thanks for letting me post this. I knew you ladies would understand.


    -Kit

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    Kit
    Sending you hugs.

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    When would your EDD have been?

    It totally does make sense - what you said about not allowing yourself to think about it and then feeling sad. The thing is though, you can't let yourself think about it all the time. A person can't function daily if they allow themselves to fee that sad all the time. It's completely normal to force yourself not to feel that way.

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    Thanks ladies. My EDD would've been late January/Early February. I had it in my head it was going to happen on my mom's birthday Jan 21st. She shares a birthday with her brother so I thought that would've been neat.

    Thanks for listening

    -Kit

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    Just *HUGS*

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    makes complete sense....not odd at all ...Although your little ones life was short here on earth...that was your baby, and forever will be....You will always remember him/her....

    I will be thinking of you on Jan 21st...remembering your lo...

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    Kit I'm sorry you are having a rough time. I think all the things you're feeling are completely normal. ((HUGS))

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    Again, I am so very sorry for you loss. The due date is a very hard day to deal with. If you can, take the day off and bury your head under the covers. I pray you find some peace.

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    The due date is very hard, for my due date I kept very busy, but it hit me the day after and I fell apart. KIT here. We are here for you.

    (((HUGS)))
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    Big hugs Kit.


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