time to join :( (mc men)

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time to join :( (mc men)

Well ladies,looks like i am officially joining you all here now Sad I found out I as preg on Jan 30th and was so excited.Went thru 2 surgeries on my tubes to get to this point and waited a year to see the word preg on that digital and I was so excited I woke poor huby up at 4:30am to tell him the good news.After having had a previous m/c in 2003 we decided not to tell people until we knew everything was ok with the baby.And now I thank God we decided that.Everything was perfect,had strong symptoms,really really sore boobs,bigger boobs,exhausted all the time,bloated all that good stuff so I thought we were gonna make it this time.But yesterday am when i went to pee I wiped and there as some pink blood on the tp.I called into work cause the last time i m/c while at work and I wasn't going thru that again.Asthe day went by only had 1 other time of pink and just when I wiped,so started to hope it was just reg preg spotting.But then as the evening went on the pink turned to red and I knew in my heart this was the beginning of the end for the baby.I woke up at 4:30 am and had to change from a pantyliner to an overnight pad as the bleeding was heavy now.At 6:30am the cramping started and here I am.Starting to wonder if I will ever get to have a baby here on earth.

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I'm so sorry you had to join us, but I hope we can be of some support while you go through this awful time.

Tamara

Joined: 11/19/05
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Sad I am so sorry you lost your baby Sad and very sad that you had to join us over here...

Take one day at a time....You will find lots of support on this board..

Sending you many :bighug:

Marie

Joined: 03/16/15
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I am so sorry for your loss. Don't give up hope. :bighug:

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Joined: 10/11/05
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I am so sorry hun. Please take care of yourself.

HUGS

vbear's picture
Joined: 01/22/05
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Thank you ladies,they confirmed the m/c with an u/s this am.Now just monitoring my levels to be sure they go down like they should

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I'm sorry for your loss. We are all here for you

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I'm sorry for your loss
-Lisa

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Well the dr's office just called and my levels are already down to 56 so we know for sure it wasn't tubal,which is great as I only have one working tube as it is.She thinks by Monday's test,it should be down to 0. I wonder if it is if I will O in the next few weeks before i get my 1st AF?

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Joined: 08/08/07
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

Jes

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Joined: 01/13/07
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I am so sorry for both of your losses. I pray that you find some peace. Please do not lose faith or hope. They are our strongest allies. The women here are amazing and I have survived in great part to the support and advice that I have gotten here. Please come here and vent, cry, rejoice, whatever you may need at any time.

Shelly

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Thank you Shelly.I have my good and bad moments as I am sure all angel mommies do.Getting ready to go back to work today,not looking forward to that at all.But gotta do it sooner or later so here we go.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. :bigarmhug:

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I'm so sorry for your loss. As for your question about ovulating, I o'ed two weeks after my last m/c started. We didn't try that cycle because I was still grieving, but you can definitely get preggers right after a m/c.