Today was my due date a year ago

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Today was my due date a year ago

These last couple of days have been hard on me. This time a year ago was my due date, wondering it would have been BOY OR GIRL. What her or his personality would have been like, Who the baby would have looked like. I am sick and tired of people asking me why we have no children after almost seven years of marriage. If its a crime or something. I am hoping every month that this will be the month of my BFP only to be diappointed. Why do they make TTC so hard on the people who lose a baby or have trouble getting pregnant? I am glad they have this board because we all have been there. Well hopefully this will be my month or next month and I go full time this time because I am sick of the heartbreak.

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Joined: 08/09/05
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So sorry you dont have the one year old you deserve sweetie. Sad It doesnt make it easier when people ask those stupid questions either. I mean, even when i hadnt experienced a loss i knew enough not to ask those kinds of questions! Who knows what troubles a couple have as far as TTC and children are concerned. Some people have no common sense!

TTC is hard, you're right. I am one of the fortunate ones in so far as it only took 7 cycles to concieve Zane and 3 for Ada, but it must be soooo hard to go on month after month. :comfort:

I wish you tons and tons of babydust hun. Hopefully it will be your month soon and you will be blessed with a stick bean.

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Joined: 02/02/07
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I just wanted to send you some ((HUGS)).

Joined: 03/16/15
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I am sorry for your loss. My loss is still so recent I can't imagaine coming to that milestone. Thinking of you :bigarmhug:

Joined: 03/16/15
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I am so sorry for your loss. You are so brave to have gotten to that point of wanting another baby. Hopefully you will get your wish and have a long and healthy 9 months.



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Joined: 01/13/07
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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am not to the one year mark yet. I cannot imagine how I would handle it. I wish you strength and peace. Shelly