Trying to keep my chin up

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Trying to keep my chin up

My EDD was 1/1/08....had a loss at 12 weeks in June..... was really hoping to be PG by the time my angels EDD was here. I thought I would feel better about my angel and the EDD if I was pg. Not that I'm trying to replace my angel, I don't want to you think that. I know that there is still hope, if I get pg this cycle, I'm praying so hard that it happens.

Secretly in the back of my mind, I keep "hearing" the drs words that 2 D&C's for the same m/c have a higher risk of infertility because of the scar tissue. I really hope that is not the case.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Heather

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Try and stay positive. Sending babydust your way!

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I wish you the best of luck.

I am thinking positive for you!

Melissa

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I remember feeling the same way.

My BF had two m/c and had to have two D&C with each. She had no problems getting pregnant after. Good luck and baby dust.

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Hugs Heather. I am thinking the same way. I keep thinking it will be easier to think about my loss when I am on the way to another blessing. It will happen~

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I am so sorry for you loss. I also had a loss in June at 16 weeks. I think you are so brave that you want to TTC again. I am sending you babydust. Stay positive.

I hope your wishes come true.

Robin

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:bighug: I'm sorry for your loss. will keep you in my thoughts.

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Your chances may increase...That said, you still have a great chance of not having any problems due to scar tissue. Most doc's are careful not to scrape to hard....I believe the risk is called Asher's syndrome??

I have had 4 out of the 9 losses that I have had...With 2 or my losses, I had to have the D&C repeated twice....

PREG-MENT

I am now just about 32 weeks pregnant....so far, so good....So, hold onto hope!!!!

:bighug:

Marie

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Sending you hugs and babydust.

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I am sorry for your loss and sending you good luck and baby dust your way!

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I can promise that not one of us thinks that you are in any way trying to replace your precious angel. We all cope differently and from what I have seen it is common to want to be pregnant for the EDD of our angel. I hope that it works out for you, but if it doesn't happen quickly please don't quit trying. Please come and post here any time that you want. The women on this board are phenomenal.

Shelly

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Thank you so much Ladies....Your kind words are so helpful.

It's so nice to know that I am not in this alone.

Baby dust to all

Heather

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Aw hon, I really hope that this is your lucky cycle
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~Amber

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:bigarmhug: I was in the same boat, hoping to be pg by my EDD, didn't happen. I just set new goals for myself. Helps get through it a little. I hope you get your bfp this time around but if not, there are tons of ladies around to offer hugs and hope for the next cycle.

Teresa