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Sorry I was MIA again. But I got sick and lost Patrick and Abby on Thursday Oct. 30th. I became septic and ended up in the ICU. After many new antibiotics and 2 blood transfusions.I was back to my regular room. I will be home soon. DH and I are broken. We take comfort in knowing we did everything possible to save the babies. We are not sure what to do yet. I need to take a break form the boards for awhile. But I'm sure I will be posting here again. Some day I will share my birth story but its really long and I'm still very weak. Thank you for all your support.

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Oh sweetheart. I am so very very sorry to read this. Sad :bigarmhug: I definitely understand needing a break. We'll be here when you are ready to come back. Hugs and prayers.

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so very very sorry , heal softly

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So very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.

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I am so so sorry! Tori

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I can't imagine. I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss! I have been praying for you and your babies for weeks now and will continue to do so.

Andrea

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Oh hun... I know nothing I say can take away your pain but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We're here for you when you need us.

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I am so sorry for your lost babies. You have my very deepest sympathy.

Take all the time that you need for your break, but I do hope you return. We're all here for you, and we're going to help you through this.

Love,
Nicole

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I am so greatly sorry for your lost babies Sad I know that in your own time you will heal. Please come back when you are ready. Big gigantic hugs to you!

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Oh honey, my heart aches for you and DH. I understand you need a break. Please let us know if we can do ANYTHING to help you.

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I am so very very sorry.

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As I sit her and sob for you and your family and the tragic loss of your 3 angels, I know that words can not heal the pain. I lost my daughter Kylie at 19 weeks almost 2 months ago and I can tell you that I still breakdown for her but time will begin to heal your pain!

We understnad that you need your time and you space but please know that we are here for you whenever you feel ready to join us. There is no pressure, we are only here to support you however you need us too!

my heart breaks for you Steph, I am so very sorry for your loss, you are a strong women to endure what you have. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please do not hesitate if you need anything!!!

Jen

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Hugs!! You take whatever break you need and we will still be here when you are ready to return. You are in my thoughts.

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I am so sorry to hear that you lost your 3 angels. I lost my twins almost 2 months ago at 21 weeks, and like Jen said, only time can help heal the pain and sadness you're feeling right now. Please know that you can PM me anytime you need to talk. It is still very fresh for me and I can relate to how you are feeling right now. Take care of yourself.

Sara

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I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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There are no words...I am so sorry that you lost Patrick and Abby as well Sad

Sending you many hugs..Just take one second at a time, and know that all of us will be here when you are able to post again..

AMarie

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I pray you find rest and peace and healing. You are in my prayers.

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There is just no way to tell you how sad I am to hear this or how very sorry I am. I prayed for your little ones. I'm so sorry they were taken from you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Sending hugs.

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I am so very sorry honey :bighug:

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I am so sorry. Take good care of yourself. We'll all be thinking of you.

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I'm so sorry for the lose of your babies. You and DH are in my thoughts and prayers.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find time to heal and come back when you are ready.

Robin