Update on me (loss & d&c ment)

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Update on me (loss & d&c ment)

Well I had my d&c yesterday and all went well. My dh and I agree we are glad we choose to do this rather than wait for natural m/c. It had been over a week and nothing was happening yet and I just didn't want to keep waiting. The d&c went fine, I have a little cramping, but very little bleeding.

I am sad, but still a little numb I think. My dh is doing better, I was really concerned about him over the past weekend because he was questioning his faith. But, he really stepped up and has been great strenght for me yesterday and today.

I know the next days, weeks and so on will have their moments as we grieve and decide what our next steps are. I so wish that we nor any of you ever had to go through a loss. We were so hoping that this one would be the one to make it, that this would be our chance.

My follow up appt. is in 4 weeks, but the doctor said he should have the test results prior to that and will call me. I really don't expect to get any answers, but hope that there is a chance they will find something. Something to give us strength and hope that if we tried again things could work.


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I am glad you are home and resting....I am so sorry you have had to go through another loss Sad

I have been praying for you, and your dh....I am glad he has been a support to you...

:comfort: Please let us know when you get your results in? I am so hoping you may be given some answers Bonnie..


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I too am sorry for your loss, but am glad the d&c went well, I hope the test results can give you some answers.

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Thank you for letting us know how you are. I will continue to think of you and keep you in my prayers.


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Glad everything came out fine and you are feeling ok. Im glad they are going to do some testing on your baby, I got some answers from mine. I think the hardest part of it is knowing what the sex would have been but down the road you think back and smile a little knowing it. I hope this brings you down a different road to where a good ending lyes. Wishing you the best.