Well I had my d&c yesterday and all went well. My dh and I agree we are glad we choose to do this rather than wait for natural m/c. It had been over a week and nothing was happening yet and I just didn't want to keep waiting. The d&c went fine, I have a little cramping, but very little bleeding.
I am sad, but still a little numb I think. My dh is doing better, I was really concerned about him over the past weekend because he was questioning his faith. But, he really stepped up and has been great strenght for me yesterday and today.
I know the next days, weeks and so on will have their moments as we grieve and decide what our next steps are. I so wish that we nor any of you ever had to go through a loss. We were so hoping that this one would be the one to make it, that this would be our chance.
My follow up appt. is in 4 weeks, but the doctor said he should have the test results prior to that and will call me. I really don't expect to get any answers, but hope that there is a chance they will find something. Something to give us strength and hope that if we tried again things could work.