For New Years My husband and I decided to go to Seattle. We went to the Needle and that was alot of fun on the way back on the ferry my husband and I had a discussion on the whole situation with her and the trying to buy everything for 50.00. My husband said the price was outrageous. I had to tell him that I have helped her countless times buy diapers & a carseat for her son, given her money for groceries. My husband and I have given her countless times money for gas and once money for a used dryer which she promptly spent on other stuff. My major concerns when the twins are born exactly how much mores she is going to ask me or my spouse for more money or something from my personal stash that I am going to need when we TTC again when he returns in May and we get Pregnant again for the third or fourth time.
Also this particular "friend" has the tendency to open her legs to anyone and gets pregnant and when she feels the love is not as hot or the spouse gets out the military she leaves the guy and cons some other military guy into marrying her.
This particular "friend" has 8 kids + two more on the way so think she can afford everything on her husbands E-3 pay which is 3 ranks below my spouse thinks we are her bank. The other thing that really irritates me or more like enrages me I have been in her car a few times and her 12 year old dd takes the 1 year ds out of his carseat while the car in his drive and hold hims in her lap ehile he bangs on the window and even on base. I had to yell at the dd and this "friend" was like she is allowed too I feel that carseats are blah blah blah. I told her to stop at the car at the light and let me out and I was taking the bus home. Now I have a question the next time if I am with her and her DD does this again should I call CPS on her?